Starway™ Room 3

Tori
Starway™ | Room 3 | Module 5

Shaping Networks and Community

The room where who you know starts to matter as much as what you know.
Room 3 interior -- Shaping Networks and Community / Money Sources
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Tori
“We did some work on our networks in Room 1 — we'll bring that up in a bit. But first: each Flock member builds their network differently. Networking is a social behavior, and social behavior is shaped by Flock style. The Peacock is in their element. The Dove is close behind but doesn't need a lot to be happy. The Eagle and Owl, being task-focused, struggle with it but make it work once they see it'll lead to a result.”~Queen Opal
Don't worry if you got something incorrect, you will be able to review and modify your locked in answers at the end of the module or where appropriate in future modules. However, all must be locked in before continuing on to the next module or room.

Skipping this module may affect your future success in the program. However, you can return at a later time to complete this if you wish.

Activity 34 — How Each Flock Member Builds a Network

Look at all four if you like — but lock in the one closest to you before moving on.

Pick the style closest to you to continue.

Activity 35 — Make Your List

One line per place — no minimum, no maximum.

“Look at that. You already have a neighborhood. Most people never think of it that way.”

Activity 36 — Spot Your People

Add at least one person or role to each section below.

Activity 37 — Your Network WIP

Without looking back at your list above, check off anyone who comes to mind for each level below.

Activity 38 — How Networking Actually Works

The 6-step relationship-building framework, and how to use your network in a job search, lives in its own slide deck, not on this page.

Review the Networking slide deck before continuing.

Activity 39 — Finding Your Community Organization

Pick the search style that fits, then type in your interest.

Notes while you search

Jot down anything worth remembering as you look around — names, first impressions, anything to compare later. This is just for you to refer back to.

Research Your Organization

Activity 40 — Make Contact

Draft a short, professional introductory message — who you are, the organization, why it fits you, and what role you'd want.

Did you take the Give & Grow™ assessment earlier in this program?

Track Your Outcome

    Tori's Checkpoint

    What Tori recommends, based on knowing what's ahead — the choice is always yours.

    You can identify who's in your network, make at least one genuine connection, and see the network hiding in your daily life. Completion, not a score, got you here.

    “Room 3 just built the foundation for your future. But before we get to the Career Room, we have to chat a bit about our money, our goals, and how we get them in alignment.”~Queen Opal

    Are you ready to move on, or do you need to modify any of your locked in responses?

    Don't worry if you got something incorrect, you will be able to review and modify your locked in answers at the end of the module or where appropriate in future modules. However, all must be locked in before continuing on to the next module or room.

    Skipping this module may affect your future success in the program. However, you can return at a later time to complete this if you wish.

    Activity 41 — What Do You Already Know About Money?

    No right or wrong answers — this personalizes what comes next.

    Do you currently receive an allowance?

    What do you mostly spend it on?

    Are there any living costs you already help pay? (choose all that apply)

    Activity 42 — What Do You Think Things Cost?

    Not a test — just a starting point. Hold onto these guesses, we'll come back to them.

    Activity 43 — What Independence Actually Costs

    Independence is not a feeling — it's a budget. Here's what the numbers actually look like for a single adult in the US right now (2025–2026).

    Transportation costs can be much more variable than other living expenses — where you live, whether public transit is available, and what a job requires can swing this number by hundreds of dollars a month, often in ways people don't factor in until after a job offer is already accepted. That's worth a closer look on its own.

    Transportation, real monthly costs

    • Personal vehicle (payment + insurance + gas + maintenance): $600–$1,000+/month
    • Public transit (fixed monthly pass): $50–$150
    • Rideshare (daily use, ~20 workdays): $300–$600+/month
    • Bicycle or walking: low cost, weather/distance-dependent
    • Paratransit: ADA-mandated for eligible individuals with disabilities

    Personal Items, real monthly costs

    • Phone (plan + data): $30–$80/month
    • Toiletries & hygiene: $20–$40/month
    • Clothing (replacing worn items, not a full new wardrobe): $30–$60/month
    • Subscriptions & entertainment: $20–$50/month
    • Small emergencies / incidentals: $20–$50/month
    “A job that pays $16/hour 20 miles away with no public transit may net less than $14/hour after transportation costs. Calculate the real take-home, not just the hourly rate.”~Queen Opal

    Activity 44 — Quiz: Budget Basics

    Activity 45 — Income: Where Money Comes From

    Earned income — wages, salary, tips, commissions — is subject to federal, state, and local taxes, plus FICA (Social Security + Medicare). Here's what entry-level earned income looks like by career area (2025–2026, national estimates):

    Every state and the federal government has a minimum wage employers must pay — you get the higher of the two.

    Activity 46 — Job Benefits and Government Supports

    This content lives in its own slide deck (this is where the Room 3 slide deck ends) — not duplicated here.

    Review the Job Benefits & Government Supports slide deck before continuing.

    Activity 47 — Quiz: Income & Government Supports

    Activity 48 — Connecting Your Interests to Income Goals

    Pick a career area to see its wage range and compare it to your own budget picture.

    How Each Flock Member Approaches Money

    Activity 49 — The Grocery Budget Challenge

    You're on a first-job income of $1,400/month take-home, in a one-bedroom apartment. Set your own weekly grocery budget below, then plan a real week of meals you'd actually eat within it.

    Starts at $75 — a medium/middle-of-the-road weekly budget, not a requirement. Change it to whatever fits the plan you're building.

    Running total: $0.00 / $75.00

    What surprised you?

    Activity 50 — What's Your Lifestyle?

    Tap a card below to land on a lifestyle scenario — the average monthly cost for that lifestyle will appear in the purple box beneath the cards as you click through your options.

    ← Review your hourly wage from Activity 5

    What would it take?

    Below is an estimate only of what a lifestyle of your choice may cost on an average basis. Please consult with local information (google it) to determine if this number is high or low for your geographic location.

    Activity 51 — Plan an Activity

    Plan a realistic activity or event on a budget you set yourself.

    Tap a category below to add an expense line for it, or add your own.

    Running total: $0.00 / $500.00

    Activity 52 — Life Skills + Plan + Budget = The Life You Want

    “For some of you, reviewing this information is overwhelming and may dampen thoughts about your future plans. But it doesn't have to be that way. After one of my surgeries, I needed help with bathing, making meals, and daily life activities. Rather than go backwards, I reached out to my network and found someone who would stop by twice a day — I had little money to pay her, so we traded: she helped with my daily living needs, in trade for me coaching her through the steps to get a new job. Look at what circumstances are and find a way around the barrier in front of you. I guarantee you'll arrive at a point greater than you imagined.”~Tori
    Want a refresher on what you shared? Revisit Room 1, Activity 6 — Life Skills Evaluation to see what you selected and how far you've come.

    Tori's Checkpoint

    What Tori recommends, based on knowing what's ahead — the choice is always yours.

    Do you understand what independent living costs, where income comes from, and how your interests connect to a realistic financial plan — even if that plan is still forming? Completion, not proficiency, is what unlocks Room 4.

    Level 1Money is one of the most important rooms in this building. Stay a little longer — the numbers are worth understanding before you leave.
    Level 2You have a clearer picture of what things cost. Room 4 is waiting.
    Level 3You know what your life will cost, where income comes from, and what your next step looks like. Room 4 is open.

    Are you ready to move on, or do you need to modify any of your locked in responses?

    Clears everything you've answered in Room 3 so you can start it fresh. Cannot be undone.

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